Advice Needed

[kassy211]

Ok , so me and my boyfriend havent really been hanging out and hes been worried more about his friends and soccer and everything else before me. I understand he might put friends before me but we havent hung out in litterally weeks and i think this is getting rediculous. I dont know if this is a good enough reason to break up with someone. Part of me says it is, and part of me says it isnt.

But is a broken heart worth the pain?
Should I Live through it and try to deal with it?

I probably sound rediculous to you now, i know. But this is the first guy i have ever love and thats no lie. Me and him have been together 11 months and next month on the 25th is a year. Thats the longest relationship i have ever had. But i dont really know what to do at this point.

So what im asking is, does anyone have any advice for me? What i should do or what they recomend? Has anyone been in my position before and just wanted to give up on it or keep trying? Is this worth to keep trying? I need answers!

I Still love him, but is love worth the stress?

[Mys]

Okay, dear.

Most men in relationships find themselves craving testosterone-filled company. It is natural for him to want to branch away for a bit, but it doesn't mean anything offensive to your relationship. It is a bit odd to have been going on for a few weeks now. Have you tried talking to him about how you feel ? I think that would be a good idea, just don't mention you were considering breaking up with him.

[kassy211]

Ok thanks so much.
I guess i should try talking to him tomorrow and see what goes on from there. And i wont even mention i even thought about breaking up with him. But on the other hand i dont want to sound like a complete control freak and make it seem like i want him all to myself when i dont. I just want to hang out with him a little instead of never. Ya know?

[Mys]

It is all in what you say.
Let him know that you understand he needs time to fill up the ol' testosterone meter but also tell him that you feel you haven't seen him in too long and you really just want more time to hang out.
I'm sure thing will go fine. Good luck, dear. I hope this works out.

[x-trying to escape-x]

My cousin was kind of an odd position as well.
But for him it had been a whole year but his gf was just.. All over him. He had gotten tired of it and dumped her after another month.
I'm just throwing this out there.
I hope I didn't say anything I shouldn't have.
And if anything Mys is right about talking to him.
But oddly enough I personally don't hang out with guys as much as girls but eh..
She seems right enough.